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Surviving the emotional upheaval of a major Life Transition

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There is an important distinction to be drawn between Change and Transition.

Change is an event. It starts and then it stops. It happens. Change is external.

Transition is internal. It is the psychological process of dealing with change. It happens over a longer period of time.

There are typically three phases to the transition phase.

Endings
Some people fail to get through transition because they do not let go of the old ways and make an ending.

In Limbo
Others fail because they become frightened and confused by the neutral zone and don't stay in it long enough for it to do its work on them.

New Beginnings
Some get through these first two phases, but then freeze when they face the third which requires a bold step into the unknown.

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